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What Can Pussy Buy You?

Have you ever heard a woman complain that she couldn’t get any action?

It’s a more common problem than you’d think. In fact, it’s more common that women say this than men do. That seems strange doesn’t it? After all, it is men who are the most overt seekers of sex, and women who are the arbiters of who is getting some and who isn’t.

But men rarely make the “I cant get any” complaint. Rarely because it is an admission of failure. It is a statement of lowered social status.

But isn’t a woman admitting to social ineptitude as well?

Not exactly.

It’s not a secret that men are the pursuers in sex, while women are the pursued. But while this is true, it can be a misleading to description of the social dynamic in effect. Men are the competitors in sexual pursuit, and women are the selectors of those who compete. Describing women as the pursued plays into the female victim narrative. A false narrative. There is power in being the selector. It’s a power that men, other than those few at the top of social and economic hierarchies don’t have. By comparison to most men, almost all women have this power. And all they have to do to keep it is not be physically disgusting.

But we return to the female complaint. I can’t get laid. Often said by an attractive woman.

When we hear those words, we are not hearing the same message that would be conveyed by a man. We are not hearing – I’ve been pursuing sexual attention and getting no positive result.

When an attractive woman says I can’t get any action in my fluffy lady bits, what what she is actually saying is this.

The men who are vying for my sexual attention are below the social or economic threshold that I have set as my price for sexual access.

A woman who says I cant get any dick is actually saying – the price I demand for sex is higher than the men in my social circle are willing to pay.

And it is true is that men who have sexual lives beyond hand-o-sexual almost all do pay. That does not mean to say that it’s all a direct exchange of cold hard cash. But for almost all women, sexual access is a tool of social exchange. That’s why for all women, male status is primary marker of sexual attractiveness.

High profile athlete? Yes please.

Janitor? No thanks, you’ll pass on that one.

What kind of guy is the athlete? What kind of guy is the janitor? Such evaluation requires men’s consideration as complete human beings. But the feminine sorting algorithm is far too efficient to bother with that level of detail. So what kind of guy is he? So it doesn’t matter.

Returning to the chick who complains that she can’t get any action. Yes, she can. What she’s saying is that she can’t get the price she wants in the market for pussy.

She is treating her sexuality as a commodity. In fact, NAWALT aside, women commoditize their sexuality in a way that men do not.

Male sexuality has no competitive market value. Because of this, few men can use their sexuality as a tradable resource. When a man observes that he cant get any, he’s saying he can’t give it away. But aside from there being little market value to male sexuality, men do not approach sex as a commercial activity. For most men, sex is a doorway to intimacy and human connection.

Can we repair the growing rift between men and women? For men, it can by dis-engaging from commoditized sexual transit. This does not mean men should stop objectifying women or viewing them as sexual objects. Men are not the controlling class in sexual matters. Dis-engagement from those who commoditize their sex is one of the few tools they have.

But it is women who are the gatekeepers of sex. Recognizing this brings a realization of just who is using who, and what they can do about it.

Does it need to be spelled out? Not, I expect, to women. And the vast majority of women will not stop trading sex for access, advantage, provision and male service. Nor will most ever admit to the ongoing exchange. Plausible deniability is a woman’s best friend. Fortunately, women are not my readership.

Men, are you still picking this up?

Your sexuality has no value in the current market. By contrast, women’s sexuality does.

And as much as this uneven playing field screws you, it’s you guys who keep the system of your own exploitation running. You continue to participate in the sexual marketplace, where your lives are devalued. Do you necessarily pay for it in cash. Not most men, at least not directly. But those who do, while frowned on by polite society might even be moving in the right direction. The openly transactional nature of sex is at least clearly visible when utilizing the services of a sex trade worker.

Gentlemen, your participation in the transaction model of sexual interaction creates the culture of disposable men.

Some men will be baffled by this. And those who can see the transactional character of sexual relations will deny, evade and spin their personal hamster wheels at light speed. They will do almost anything avoid the reality that puts an unavoidable personal challenge right in their laps.

Gentlemen, you do the work of running it, but you do not rule the world. The world, like all other enterprises is run not through direct control, but indirectly by proxy.

Public mythology states that because men sit at the heads of corporations and governments, the whole world is a patriarchy. Run by men, for men. But this is an infantile and foolish conception of the way the world works. But unless have it clear in our minds just how stupid the myth is, we will be harassed by people who do not want anything to change ever.

And why would anybody promote that false and stupid model as reality? Because they benefit by men keeping to their role as draft horses, walking wallets, violence and resource dispensers, and disposable humans. In other words, Real Men [tm]. And if you’re one of these esteemed protector provider servitors whose value depends on female approval, then you are part of the problem.

You gentlemen, real men and good men are propping up social rule by a leisure caste who manage their servants by telling them that they’re real men, good men and so on.

And the woman complaining she can’t get any is telling the males around her they’re not providing enough benefit in exchange for access to her magic vagina. She’s complaining about low financial achievers. But she’s also complaining about guys capable of being her provisioning tool but with the self esteem to reject the exchange of female supplied identity for their self sacrifice.

Do not be one of the sleepers underlying the rails that the trains run on.

For men, this means rejecting the normal interface between men and women where male identity is traded in sexual transaction for the provision of women .

That all has to go. Flush it right down the shitter.

What does she want in exchange for sexual access. If it’s anything except the same human intimacy and connection you want – then it’s nothing but a transaction. A bad deal for you. No matter how it is hidden, men trade their humanity for approval from the self-serving prehistoric instincts of a breeding female’s uterus.

And one of the problems is that most men do not believe they are capable of doing anything except conforming. That is, conforming to the allowed role of a controlled servant given positive identity based on continued utility. Stepping outside that path takes will power and self knowledge that does not come without hard work.

This is not complicated. But saying it is simple does not mean it is easy.

It’s also, at the present beyond most men’s and women’s ability to grasp. Not because they aren’t capable, but because it is new and unknown.

And there are fraudsters in this game playing for mainstream appeal try to co-opt the identity of men forging a new path for themselves. But a tiny minority are cutting this new path. And difficult as it seems to conventional thinkers, the path becomes increasingly easy as more people adopt it.

And that good looking girl who cant sell her kooch for a high enough price, maybe eventually she’ll figure it out too.

13 thoughts on “What Can Pussy Buy You?”

  1. Hello John !

    Nice article.
    But I have a question.

    English is not my mother tongue and I do not understand all your explain. But I think I captured the main part.

    “And if you’re one of these esteemed protector provider servitors whose value depends on female approval, then you are part of the problem.”

    Could you explain (simply) how to be out off the part of the problem ?

    1. I think it means: the men who are most thirsty for the pussy and pour greatly too much resources toward satisfying that thirst skew the pussy marketplace, creating kind of a “pussy bubble”

  2. The more we remove ourselves from the male/female sexual transaction the more there will be pressure on all other forms of men’s entertainment in an attempt to force us back into the traditional path. Feminists, as a proxy for all women, will get more active in their attacks on porn, video games, prostitution; any forums or pastimes where men are in the vast majority
    Hold on, surprise, surprise that’s already happening.
    I think the process of turning away has already started, The marriage rate is drastically slowing. The pussy begging appears to be continuing at about the same rate as it always has, but that will soon begin to change as as more of these feminist inspired draconian measures to control male sexuality get put in place and men start to react to the increasing risks of pursuing women for sex. Then the real fun will begin. All the factors that are apparent to us are just not obvious to the vast majority of people in western society, yet. Somebody has to tell them.
    Hold on, wait, that’s us…
    And nobody likes the bearer of bad news. When people start to wake up to what’s happening in front of their eyes they’re going to get angry. My thought right now is that as the primary bearer of that bad news MGTOW will be one of the primary targets of that anger, in all the forms that it may take.
    Seriously, Be prepared!

    1. Very true.
      I somehow want to debate the feminists in their phony discussion on the public funded (sic!) television shows.
      Call those lesbian postmodernist manhaters on their shit.
      But than again i know that most men are manginas that are already invested to deeply in this system to want to know the truth.
      They will hate the messenger not the message.
      At this point i don’t want to destroy my fickle piece of mind for ungratefull manginas.

  3. @ ccomp,

    I am beginning to smell a troll. Are you a woman or a troll? Because … your questions are plainly obvious to a red-pill (and I would go so far to say a blue-pill) man.

    For everyone else. It appears a troll has introduced themselves to us .. feed or don’t feed at your / our own risk.

    1. Man and not a troll.

      My questions are true and curious. I try to understand because the main part of the article is interessting but still quite conceptual for me…
      I really need examples to understand…I need explanations… because I am a man.

      1. Concrete example: a woman is mad at her husband, so she makes him sleep on the couch. “He’s not getting sex for a month!” She tells anyone who will listen. He gets ridiculed by everyone around him. “Don’t you know not to make her mad?”

        What did he do? It doesn’t matter. Either he did something she didn’t like, or he didn’t do something she wanted him to do. If he tries to find out what he did, he’ll just make her even more mad for not already knowing what he did or didn’t do. Instead, he has to find out from the people around him, which leads to more ridicule.

        I’ve heard women at my workplace gleefully talk about using this method to punish their husbands. The transaction here is: fulfill these requirements and you get sex. Forget any of them, no sex for you. And often, not just no sex, but sleeping on the couch, instead of in the bed he bought and paid for. Not just no sex, but no cuddles, no warm body.

        I propose that women do recognize that men want intimacy from sex, that’s why the woman completely pulls away from all intimacy when she’s mad.

  4. men, you need to ignore and boot the worthless women from your life… you also need to adapt to their vagina games… and you should probably start mailing them live cats and charging them to them… they’re going to end up with them anyway… if a woman does not respect you she does not respect herself… and that right there is where you need to start… ignore the herd whores… love the sight, DD has it correct all the way. ” )

  5. Deadpan truth.

    The quicksand you’ve been running in all your life but couldn’t quite identify
    It has been the same all along
    It has been her, in all her forms

    It is time to unshackle

    Wise misogyny

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